Removing The Veil of Denial

This is the term ‘veil of denial’ I used when I finally came out of my denial.

I spent so many moments in my life to cherish that I destroyed because of my denial and not living the truth of my life.

Through my experiences I have learned when living in denial is where you make so many excuses for yourself, others, and your situation. Staying in a place that does not allow you to grow and you start having a life of dread.

Why do this?

  • You can not or are not able to or do not know how to handle your situation.
  • Living in fear and too afraid to step up.

These are situations when you need to step up and find solutions to your situation instead of making excuses.

To help you to take off the ‘veil of denial’, here are a few tips:

  • Knowledge, Knowledge, Knowledge. Learning more about what you don’t know about your situation to find a solution.
  • Ask questions, especially when you do not understand, so important. The more understanding you have the more solid you can make decisions in your life.
  • Seek solutions not a pity party. Seek professional help, especially if your situation calls for it. Seek those who truly want to help you bring solutions to your situation. Some people’s help are not looking out for your best interest.
  • Get real with your reality. Facing the fact that you have not done your part to hold yourself accountable.

Get Real! Be honest with yourself and about your situation allows you to think more on finding solutions. This helps you to speak up to find the right help. We all have lived a soap opera life and some are still living in it.

Look at denial as if it is a person who is trying to get you to make as many excuses as possible to stop you from learning and growing.

It can be scary to face the fact that you have not done your part to hold yourself accountable. Denial and pity are two people that love to stick together trying to keep you from doing what is right in your life.

When you have had enough of making excuses you are finally ready to handle the process of learning how to handle your challenges, start seeking solutions and take the action to bring your solutions to your situation.

(Please get professional help if your situation calls for it) This blog post is for inspirational content purposes.

Published by inspirebyjoy

Hello, my name Joy. Throughout my life experiences not utilizing my own abilities & talents I saw how I was not living a life of Joy. I realized how I was not owning my own name. Here I am bringing my experiences to inspire those who seek to unlock their true potential. Bringing products that bring a share JOY in life.

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